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It is with some
trepidation that I face 2006. In my life, 1976 wasn’t that great, 1986
was awful rough, and 1996 was just horrendous. I fear, perhaps, there is
some kind of 10-year cycle rotating around in my life span. But that’s
just silly--isn’t it?
I sometimes feel I’m
standing on a cliff’s edge with all the things I cherish, looking down
on a vast wilderness below. Around me are the small cleared openings of
trails starting down the hillside, and beside me is a sign that says,
“Below is the valley of 2006. Pick Your Path.”
Well, from
here, all the paths look the same--before vanishing into the wild, dark
forest. But each one has a sign of its own.
The first path says,
“This whole 10-year cycle thing is just crazy. Just pick this path and
go. Don’t think so hard.” The second path says, “You’re doomed. The
10-year cycle is fate. It’s out of your control. Just prepare yourself
for the worst and get it over with.” The third path says, “The 10-year
cycle can be broken. If you find the hidden treasure along this path,
you will be able to escape your destiny.” And so on.
In previous
decades, I don’t think I was aware of my behavior at all. Likely, I just
picked some path before me, not even recognizing the signs. I did not
know I was making choices. I was not planning. I was just wandering
through the wilderness, from one year to the next.
In a way, I
think perhaps just realizing I was making choices is enough to break the
cycle . . . if there is a cycle . . . not saying there is . . . but if
there was . . .
Every year
is a new year, just as every day is a new day. Every minute is a chance
to stop, stand in the moment, and take time to actively evaluate and
adjust. Examine the things that keep you from happiness and security.
Every second is a pathway to the future, an opportunity to plan for
better things.
I don’t
believe that life is already planned, and we simply go through the
motions. I do believe there are tests and bumps in the road that we are
meant to face, and no secret or charm can prevent it. But I believe it
is my response to these challenges that determines the road before me.
If I learned nothing from ’76, ’86 and ’96, I learned that.
New Year’s
resolutions are promises for change, but they are not plans. Plans are
maps through the wilderness that stretches through the valley before us.
We can simply pick any path before us, or arm ourselves with a sickle,
water, and a compass. We are most likely to succeed and survive if we
have a plan.
I could face
2006 thinking, “It’s going to be a terrible year,” or, I could face the
New Year with positive thoughts and plans for a brighter future. But
with plans in place, and goals for the future, I am less likely to be
derailed.
Just as it
is in personal lives, it is the same with organizations, businesses,
communities and governments. We shall all face challenges this year. The
county’s change in classification from a Class 10 to Class 9 county
alone should bring interesting changes. New voting systems, a tightening
economy, new federal legislation . . . We all must actively plan and
persistently move towards our goals, or we might likely be derailed.
Preconceived
notions about available opportunities and economic data do not sentence
us to failure. The rotating cycle of downfalls within our community only
control us if we allow it. By viewing challenges as impossible barriers,
by giving in to the obvious, by falling into the negativity, by focusing
on stereotypes and statistics, we accept failure.
There is no written
determination of doom for any of us. Happiness, success,
improvement--all come from within.
This year,
don’t just make promises, make a plan. Plan to budget, spend time,
communicate, work hard, work together. Plan for every level of your
life, and then plan to bring all the paths together. Take a moment to
map out the paths that will lead us all to health and happiness, and
recognize the pitfalls, then find a way to navigate around them.
For without that map, we give in to the wheels of fate--and then we are
just lost in the wilderness. |