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We have spent several days talking with couples who have
been married for over 50 years.
We discovered that these people were more than just
husbands and wives. They each talked of sacrifice, hard times, and
persistence.
Romance movies and novels cannot begin to describe the
reality of these loves that have lasted half a century.
We feel it is important to celebrate the faith and
devotion of these Calhoun couples. They stand today as an example of
true love, authentic relationships, and kept promises.
Wisdom from the experienced is priceless; therefore,
each couple was asked to explain the reasons behind their ability to
stay together through the years.
They were also asked to give some insight or advice for
couples starting out today. Read each answer carefully and know that
these are words from the wise.
If you happen upon one of these couples, take a moment
to congratulate them and to wish them many more years together.
Happy Valentine’s Day, Calhoun couples. May God bless
your faithfulness.
Next week--60 years or more.
Dallas
and Carlene Frederick
Nobe
Apr. 4, 1958 - 50 years
Their secret: “We’ve been willing to give as well as
receive.”
Advice: “Have God in your life and be committed to him
and each other.”
Ronald and Carole Hosey
Grantsville
Dec. 27, 1958 - 50 years
Their secret: “Understanding and agreement.”
Advice: “Make sure you know the person before you marry
them.”
Arthur and Barbara Johnson
Sand Ridge
July 17, 1957 - 51 years
Their secret: “Just knowing we were right for each
other.” (They had known each other for three weeks before marrying.)
Advice: “Stay together.”
Carroll and Dorothy McCauley
Grantsville
Nov. 10, 1956 - 52 years
Their secret: “A lot of love and working through the ups
and downs.”
Advice: “Communication is necessary.”
Hobart and Alta Mae Richards
Big Springs
Dec. 15, 1956 - 52 years
Their secret: “We made it a goal to always love each
other and we decided to always be together.”
Advice: “In today’s age, it is almost impossible
financially, but I believe the woman should stay at home and take care
of her family.”
George and Ruth Varenjes
Grantsville
Dec. 15, 1956 - 52 years
Their secret: “The Lord put us together. We have a
marriage made in Heaven. He came to Ruth and told her I was the one.”
Advice: “Communication is the key. Talk and share with
each other.”
Shirley and Faye Fitzwater
Grantsville
Dec. 23, 1956 - 52 years
Their secret: “Understanding each other.”
Advice: “Communicate, trust each other, and know that
there will be ups and downs.”
Duane and Pat Radabaugh
Grantsville
Dec. 23, 1956 - 52 years
Their secret: “Lots of patience and lots of love.”
Advice: “It is important to keep God uppermost in your
lives. Always be kind and always be compassionate.”
Jim and Evelyn McCormick
Grantsville
July 10, 1955 - 53 years
Their secret: “We have respected each other, worked hard
together, and talked to solve problems together.”
Advice: “I was raised the right way, in an old time
church with old time pastors. I give God credit for my life and all His
help to furnish the way. Seek the reflections of His goodness.”
Charles and Barbara Roberts
Five Forks
Aug. 12, 1955 - 53 years
Their secret: “We’ve made it this far with God’s help.
Life has not always been a bed of roses, but we always asked God for
help and trusted in him.”
Advice: “Obey the Lord, trust in Him, and love each
other always.”
Kenneth and Ernestine Keaton
Dec. 29, 1955 - 53 years
Their secret: “Being committed to each other.”
Advice: “Don’t run home to momma, and have give and take
in the relationship.”
Frank and Joan Schumacher
Grantsville
Sept. 1, 1954 - 54 years
Their secret: “We listen to each other. We don’t always
agree, but sometimes agree to disagree.”
Advice: “Look before you leap.”
Joe and Dorcas Cain
Big Bend
Nov. 26, 1953 - 55 years
Their secret: “We both have the same ideas of raising
children and such, but we come at things from different angles and meet
in the middle.”
Advice: “Talk and think over things. Don’t give up.”
Gordon and Hope Schoolcraft
Orma
Dec. 22, 1951 - 57 years
Their secret: “Give and take, helping each other and
speaking your peace.”
Advice: “Do not take anything for granted.”
Don and Willa Lee Kelley
Grantsville
June 18, 1950 - 58 years
Their secret: “My husband knew how to handle me. When I
get mouthy, he comes over and kisses me. He never argued back. He gets
all the credit. I still can’t stay mad at him. He keeps us on an even
keel.”
Advice: “Keep your expectations in reason--there is no
50-50, only 100-100. Don’t go to bed angry.”
Jack and Madeline Dawson
Grantsville
Oct. 20, 1950 - 58 years
Their secret: “Working together and with the help of the
Lord.”
Advice: “Don’t get married too young and learn to give
and take.”
Euell and Freda Tucker
Arnoldsburg
58 years
Their secret:
“Lots of prayer.”
Advice: “Trust your bible-- advice from there is all you
need.”
Francis and Donna Cain
Big Bend
Apr. 15, 1949 - 59 years
Advice: “Just take it one day at a time.”
Olen and Murl Siers
Mt. Zion
Nov. 26, 1948 - 59 years
(Murl
passed away July 28)
Their secret: “We lived and worked hard together. We
started with nothing, but ended up doing well enough. Be true to each
other.”
Advice: “Today is all together different. Set your
sights on what you want. Work hard and you can do anything.”
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